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James Deen
I would do just about anything to experience what it’s like to fuck James Deen. sploosh There aren’t very many porn stars that I seek out when I masturbate. As long as the pleasure and/or pain seems...
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Erotic Massage
I had spent the days beforehand in a heightened state of arousal. The thought of your hands (were they big or small? rough or soft? long or short?) roaming my body at your whim, eyes roving where they...
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Kink Party
I finally attended my first NYC kink party this past weekend. I witnessed a beautiful tattooed woman get tied up, slowly, methodically, in ornate knots of purple rope. I saw asses getting spanked for...
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BDSM in the Sexual Attitude Realignment (SAR)
I had the distinct privilege of taking part in a SAR training in New York City this week. It was so thought-provoking and exciting, I can barely manage to sort it all out. Of course, BDSM was a topic...
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Polyamory and Swinging
My distaste for monogamy does not particularly constitute an identification with the polyamory or swinging lifestyle. Although I prefer non-monogamous relationships, I do not define them as polyamorous...
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Remark Magazine Publication!
Check me out on page 57 of Issue 13 in Remark Magazine! I’m practically a celebrity, now.
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My Bias
As a human, marinating in a culture with its own ideals and prejudices, I cannot help but be biased. I am doing my best to rid myself of the ones that I notice and do not care for, but some are harder...
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The Repression of Female Sexuality
I am a skeptical person, by nature. When an idea or an opinion seems too radical, or leans too far to one side, I’ll roll my eyes and play devil’s advocate ’til the cows come home. So while I...
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Why I Hold Back: A Sexual Psychoanalysis
I absolutely adore Freud. I know that probably doesn’t come as a shock to anyone who knows me. But c’mon – despite the fact that some of his theories have been debunked – the man was an absolute...
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The Euphoria of Fetish
If you spend enough time in the kink world, you start to lose sight of what “outsiders” think when they hear about it. I find myself baffled by people’s responses of shock, dismay, and distaste for the...
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Differentiating Between Fantasy and Reality
So, this post might be a little controversial because it touches on something that is universally despised: pedophilia. Let me state this loud and clear: individuals that act on their urges to molest...
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Same-Sex Marriage is a Right!
Congratulations to the SCOTUS for finally not fucking up. First, it saves Obamacare, and then it legalizes gay marriage across the country! Words cannot express how utterly thrilled I am that people...
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Check Out My Post on Manhattan Alternative!
“ManhattanAlternative.com is a network of therapeutic service providers in New York City who are sex-positive, affirmative, and have expertise related to issues that kink, poly, consensually...
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Submissive Theory
When I attempt to embody the headspace of a submissive, I often find myself falling short. I’ll resist being ordered around, laugh at those who attempt to dominate me, and roll my eyes at orders. While...
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Amy Schumer and the Media
I love Amy Schumer. I think she’s hilarious and feminist and progressive (in many ways, not all). Her 12 Angry Men parody is on point. So I had high hopes for Trainwreck. I assumed that the trailer...
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Deviant Desires
People often ask me which of my sexual encounters is the “weirdest”. As someone who is rarely phased by deviance, I often have a difficult time answering, despite having experienced things that most...
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Is There a Difference Between Genders?
I know that humans need labels in order to make the complexities of life easier to understand. A whisk is a kitchen appliance, therefore it belongs in the kitchen. Right, that makes sense, and seems...
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I Am Desirous When I Am Desired
Someone asked me to “try to capture and define what truly sends you over the edge” and because I’m having writer’s block, I think that’s exactly what I’ll do. It seems like an impossible task, really,...
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Sex Work
It may be surprising to you that I am ambivalent about sex work. For a long time, I was adamant that sex work should be legalized. And in many ways, I still think it should be. The idea of stigma-free...
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Is Sex a Drive?
For a long time, I considered sex to be a drive. Like eating, I need it to survive. And while sometimes it certainly feels that way – I become irritable, teary, and sometimes downright mean if I...
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